Listen, you don't need to be pro at Kama Sutra or have a stripper pole in your room to be good in bed. Most men just want you to be present, open, honest and of course--have fun! After all, isn't that the whole point? Trust me, being ridiculously good in bed is actually a lot easier than you'd think. But if you want to be the BEST sex he's ever had, it's time you take things up a notch girl!
For every man oral sex is synonym of heaven. The bliss they experience when they are laying on their backs is celestial. For some women, giving oral sex is empowering. They love to have complete control over him using two weapons: her hand and her mouth. Oral sex should be fun and exciting because, if you are enjoying it, he will too. There are some myths regarding oral sex and we are going to decode them for you.
Talk about micro-penises is on the rise! For those of you who don't know what a micro-penis is, let me fill you in on the deets. Micropenis is a term for a penis that measures approximately 3 centimeters (1.2 inches) "when stretched while flaccid," according to BuzzFeed. In other words, the average micropenis probably measures as long as the tip of your pinky finger. Wow! I…what…how?
While most of our resolutions for the New Year have probably already been broken, working on your relationship shouldn't be one of them. Yes, this is a time of year to start fresh and learning from our mistakes is a part of that. I'm committed to leaving behind these common intimacy mistakes we all do in the bedroom. Who is joining me?
People have been using makeshift lube since the dawn of time, and though we've come to understand a lot about the effects certain "natural" substances can have down there, you'd be surprised to know just what kind of crazy things some couples are still using to get wet and wild. Now, not all natural lube alteratives are bad. Many are great--not to mention they're cheap and handy. However, there are a few slippery substances out there that have no business being anywhere near your lady bits. Use the wrong homemade lube and you run the risk of going from hot and bothered to burning and irritated.
Few things are as frustrating as getting sexy with your man and trying to take things further, but he just can't get his gears going. It's not just disappointing for you, but for him as well because it's not like he doesn't want to do the do. Well before going in for a Viagra prescription, you two should look into the virility diet.
Lots of men would like to have us believe their packages are simply too large for most women to handle. That's cute. Let them keep believing that. But you at least owe it to yourself to know the truth. According to Dr. Lauren Streicher, author of Sex RX: Hormones, Health, and Your Best Sex Ever, most vajayjays are able to fit all shapes and sizes of penises, "given appropriate arousal and lubrication." That said, should you not be able to fit your partner's P into your V, chances are you may be dealing with one of two totally annoying, but totally reversible, sex related issues--both of which have nothing to do with the size of your man's package. But one of which has everything to do with how he throws down in the bedroom. So take note, ladies AND gentlemen.
Imagine this: you're lying next to your partner who's totally ready to get it on with you and while you're heart and mind are excited about the thought, your body--or rather your sweet spot below--is just not responding. There are few things worse than trying to have sex when you're not well lubricated. Not only does it make sex painful--if you can even manage penetration at all--but it could lead to irritation and you'll be feeling sore for days afterwards. Below, some of the causes for vaginal dryness so you can pinpoint why it's feeling like the Sahara Desert down there.
"I want a sexless relationship for the New Year," said no one ever. A New Year's sex resolution should be in the works! This time of year is always a time for reflection and a fresh start, but somehow our goals for health, fitness and career trump thoughts about improving the spark in the bedroom. Why not consider ways to bring more orgasms into your life in 2015? It'll be a free and painless stress reliever, my friends. The good news is your sex life can be as explosive as you want it to be this year. Here are three sex resolutions for moms that will guarantee you more ohh's and ahh's where it matters most: the sack.
Let me tell you, some of the best sex I've ever had has been outside of the bedroom (Abuela, I hope you're not reading this). In fact, I'm always really surprised when I meet chicks who tell me they've only had sex in bed. Really? Sorry, but life is too short to be living according to routine--especially when it comes to sex!