5 Sex secrets your man will never reveal to you
There are always unspoken truths among partners--especially when it comes to the bedroom. The fact is, there are certain things that are better left unsaid, but what if those little secrets were actually stopping you from being a better sex partner in the bedroom? Don't worry. We are decoding all of the sex secrets your man will never reveal to you. Yes, we are going there...
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1. He fears not meeting your expectations: No matter how long a couple has been dating or married, a man always wants to satisfy in the bedroom. If you don't have sex that often, he may be thinking that the low session counts may be his fault. Licensed clinical psychologist Adam Sheck explains, "Your husband wants to know that he's 'doing his job,' but he doesn't want to know if he's not," he explains. What should you do if you aren't feeling the mojo? "Focus the conversation on what you like. The more fun and 'no biggie' you make things, the less likely his ego will take a hit," he advises.
4. He doesn't always want to have sex: Believe it or not, men aren't always in the mood to get it on. It's also totally natural for a man's sex drive to decrease with age. Jeanne O'Connell, MD, medical director and cofounder of Sylvana Institute for Medical Aesthetics, explains that this doesn't mean he isn't attracted to you. She suggests, "Try not to take it personally if he used to want to tear off your clothes when you walked in the door and now he hardly notices the new skirt you're wearing." Instead, communicate with him about your feelings and allow him to voice his.