5 ways to talk dirty like a natural

If you're looking to spice things up in the bedroom sometimes what you say, not what you do can go a long way. We're referring to dirty talk and the problem with this is that not everyone can do it. For some it may come more naturally, but for others, they may feel that they sound silly. This can be true if you don't have the experience with seductively chatting up your man. Much to your surprise he may feel awkward doing that too!

But have no fear; we've come up with some tips to help you get comfortable with talking dirty.  You won't even have to worry about sounding out of character!


Although men are visual creatures, there's nothing like good dirty talk to set them off. Think about it, by telling them what you're going to do to them, how you want to be touched, and so forth, not only are you going to improve your sex life, but you'll be adding excitement in the bedroom too.

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Repeating your partner's name- A good way to get your hubby all riled up is by saying his name whenever possible. As you're whispering in his ear, saying his name not only sounds hotter but it gets him more aroused that he knows you're craving him.

Assertive- Tell him what you want. If you want him to kiss your neck, rub your back, tell him. This will also give him a better idea as to what you like and help you achieve the big O much easily.

Inquisitive- Ask him if what you're doing for him feels good or what would make it better. Trust us he'll appreciate that you care enough to ask and find out. This will only make him want to reciprocate the affection (wink, wink).

Complimentary- Tell him if something feels good, if he smells good, if you find him hot in the moment. It's an ego boost for him and for you since you're knocking boots with this hot stud!

Demanding- Once you've reached a level of confidence with dirty talk, just be demanding. Tell him to take off his clothes, lay down. This is perfect for those times when you feel super in control of the situation. And the best part is the more in control you are, the easier it will be for you to achieve pleasure.

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